Attraction

What qualities attract one to another? Is physical attraction a part of the criteria? I don't think so. Of cos I guess being good looking sure helps, but there are many more qualities that are important. What do you look for in a guy? =P The following are some of the things that I think are important! Haa.. Yup, I'm listing my 择偶条件. So help me keep a look out yeah!?! Haa...

Dedication: A guy who is dedicated to the things he does, be it work or other activities, exudes charm. A serious attitude, the initiative when doing things are qualities that are very attractive. Know what he is doing, guiding and helping others along. Displaying leadership yet without being overbearing or bossy leaves good impression. 认真的男人，很有魅力。

Humor: This is something that's very important. To be able to deliver humor without being sacarstic, and join in the laughter. A deep laugh that's infectious brings smiles to others.

Chivalry: A guy who's gentlemanly in his actions is very sweet. Old traditions like holding the door, getting the drinks should be bare basic.

These are but just three qualities, yet three qualities that are hard to find.

But then again, even if you do meet one who possess all your dream qualities, would you make the first step? I know I won't. I believe fate has already destined the partner of one's life. Even if one has to go a big round before finding the destined one, so be it. In the end, what's meant to be, will be.